The more often we do something, the easier it gets. That’s true for physical tasks, but also for mental ones. Here’s where our Enneagram style enters. The more often we have an automatic Enneagram response to something, the easier it gets. So our Enneagram style works better all the time.
For example, if a style Two gains love by serving, he learns how to ferret out situations, people, and places where serving works the best. As he serves, he gets better at it. As he gets better it, the rewards get better. As they get better, he focuses on what works best –he’s no dummy — and he is successful.
The only thing he misses is the other ways of finding love.